own buz 23:mediation to reconcilliation, PATIENCE!

[MrBond]

You're not getting it.

I'm reacting to what YOU wrote. You're still not seeing other people's POV. The way your wrote it came off as rude. But rather than trying to understand it, you fight back. That's the whole problem with you and your situation.

"Have you not read my threads? I am quite polite. Don't assume."

I didn't ASSUME. Go back and read your post again in an objective way.

"Not rude or insulting."

Again, that's YOUR perception. However to those who you are directing your comments to, they are rude and insulting.

"I feel that you in particular Bond, give me hard lessons to change myself (and I am!), however I want YOUR opinion on my relationship... and I feel you keep avoiding it."

Are you serious? I spend more time on your thread than anyone else's here. I've given you my opinions time and time again. How dare you say I avoid it? They are just things that you don't want to hear or follow through with.

"All you do is tell me what I am doing wrong with myself. Not offering suggestions on how to repair or some ideas to think about."

You've got to be kidding me. I'm done. Good luck.