Thanks, 3boyz, that's exactly what I am saying. My H is delusional, and me pointing that out will do no good, no matter how nice I am about it. I am hoping that his lawyer can give him a slap upside the head. I am not convinced that he will ever be happy with the outcome of the D (other than the fact that we will be D), but tough. You live with the consequences of your decisions.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
