to further clarify & add:

Boundary:
~ No coffee/talk time. (yesterday, I indulged in coffee time, was trying to keep communication line open). I guess that sends him a mixed signal. That I am still "here" = confusion for both.
~ if OW in picture/on phone, I am not available/interested.
~ proceed with separation of business.
~ circular talks should be presented to a C

should I add anything or be flexible on my boundary? (keeping the path back smooth?)

This is all very confusing...

and to add, do not acknowledge that she exists to myself either, just to clear that up!


M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)