Let me re-iterate what I understand. Continue to keep my boundary in place. Do not indulge in time spent with H (coffee/convo), due to my boundary?? My boundary IS for ME!! and in no way intended to punish him. This is to protect me. I do not agree with him trying to have both, her friendship and my time. Playing on both sides while enjoying the perks of "confusion". Do not enable. Meanwhile, do not talk or obsess about her. Do not acknowledge to him that she exists.
Do I have this right?
I am really anxious to receive your next post. I am anxious to see if I understood correctly.
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
