THANKS PM !!!! Awesome accuracy with the 3 options... Can you expand further what you mean about the OW? "setting up personal boundary & she doesn't exist?"... Im not getting it.
Thanks also for the "no expecations"... I have done that to myself in the past.. UP & DOWN... it sukked!
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Hey Heather.... NP about the highjack... I have commented my thoughts on your thread.
The OW doesn't exist to you. You don't talk about her, you don't think about her, you don't snoop, you don't acknowledge that she exists.
Regarding boundaries, you have mentioned setting some regarding how you will interact with your H relative to his involvement with OW. Other than setting that boundary, which is for you and NOT to punish him, see the previous paragraph.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
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