own buz 23:mediation to reconcilliation, PATIENCE!

[makingmagic]

NO bond... its just saying "its their opinion"... and thanks for it.

Have you not read my threads? I am quite polite. Don't assume.

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I feel that I have changed. And so has my situation.

As for the "controlling" behaviour ~ I will consider what you are saying. I am not "seeing" it, but that doesn't mean its not happening.

If you notice (Db'ing and councelling) .... The "I" statements. This is what we are trained to do. Why would you say that its a rude comment? It states how "I" feel and I am upset.

I have never stated, "im going to do what Im going to do".... although I have been encouraged to do so. So... not understanding.

Not rude or insulting.

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I do not need countless threads of the same, telling me that I am the same.... and yes, it has been mentioned that I am not DB'ing. Have I not displayed it yet?

I feel that you in particular Bond, give me hard lessons to change myself (and I am!), however I want YOUR opinion on my relationship... and I feel you keep avoiding it. All you do is tell me what I am doing wrong with myself. Not offering suggestions on how to repair or some ideas to think about.

If you want to state that I am "controlling" and ETC... don't just label it, show me where I am doing it.