Don't give up because of the EA/PA. It does change the game but you can survive it if it's not a total deal breaker for you.
That's something you'll have to decide for yourself but I would encourage not to make a final decision based on how you are feeling right now. I know it's a real punch in the gut but don't do t let the intense negative feelings you have right now dictate your actions which might have permanent consequences.
Hang in there.
Me:45 W:45 D17, S21 (at college) M:23 T:27 BD: 11/17/13 Started Counseling: 12/18/13 W Moved Out: 02/01/14