Hey, Paul, self-flagellation is never the answer. We get where we get when we get there.

No one is timing you but yourself.

At some point you'll see your self worth. Your kids do.

Artsy mentioned going to a meeting, and I've been thinking this week I need to get back to AlAnon. I learned so much there and it kept me honest with myself.

Maybe you should give it a try.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss