WAW Said She's Done-pt.4- What Happened?

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WAS are gonna do what they're going to do. You can't stop that. By detaching and picking yourself up off the floor. It will do 2 things

1.) You will become way less needy, clingy and weak. Your WAW is looking for a strong man. That is what they are attracted to. Only you can make sure that you are as strong and attractive as possible by following DB principles.

2.)It will help you get your W and your M off your mind. It will get easier as you GAL and detach.

Remember, Your W chose this you did not force her to do this. Whats done is done as far as your confronting her about this A.

If you continue to badger her about it it will drive her further away. These A almost always come to an end. Patience is a very good friend right now for you.

Take this time to improve yourself so when/if it ends you will be someone your W will take notice of again.

You are the logical choice for her because you are the Father of her children. Take advantage of this time to help yourself. It will pay off down the road no matter what happens.

Read the success stories in DR again. An A is not a death sentence to a M. With hard work from both of you there can be a new R somewhere down the road.

Your W is on a journey right now, nothing you do can stop that at the moment. Once you can come to grips with that you will be able to start to work on yourself.

In her mind she is not doing anything wrong, You telling her is not going to make her stop.

hang in there!!