MH I wouldn't think too much of it. In most cases W is trying to make her plans for just her while on this journey. I don't see it as un natural to assume she is expecting to need money set aside to do something with. Much to the point her plans don't include you for the moment and you are going to have to face a long road of not letting that bother you while you work it out. If you react to the negative things you see it will only set you back.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10