WAW seems confused

[FloydMan]

Look up dissipation of marital assets and disposition of marital assets and consult your counsel. If you are legally separated, and there is a valuation date then all assets at that date are equalized. You will be entitled to know and she will be required to show statements for that date of ALL accounts, assets such as pensions, RRSP's etc etc etc. so will you. Make sure when the disclosure is released this account is shown on a net family property statement. If you are legally separated, then she has the right to have her own account and all in it after date of separation (valuation date) is hers. This date must be legally established and agreed to, make sure she was not dissipating assets prior to this date. Ask your lawyer. Do not be a doormat. Open your own account too. She is saving for a reason.