Yes. Agree with positive, negative or no communication. Seeing it this way makes sense.

So, I noticed she is not depositing her entire check. She is grabbing a small amount of cash and possibly saving it and hiding it from me. I guess I should ignore this behavior, as it will lead to a negative response but it is hard to draw the line when it comes to honesty between both of us. Makes sense?


Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years
Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8
Separated: 10/24/13
DB since: 12/14/13
Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet)
Still living together/Separate rooms