Sounds like another case of "Must crash and burn before he see's the light".

You are very wise to back yourself far away from the wreckage.

Now is not the time to waver. May you find much strength and peace on your path, 2T2M.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl