Feel free Melissag. I've been reading so much, and I realize that back in my M, W and definitely had some A->B->C->A cycles. Looking back, they would have been so easy for either of us to have broken, if only either of us had been just a little attentive. If I could have broken the cycle and didn't, I'm just as responsible as the other guy.
One of the things I'm learning is to not be so quick to blame W for everything that's gone wrong.
Well, except for the OM, lies, breach of trust etc. Those minor things are all hers. ;-)
