If I were in your shoes, I couldn't call 911 just because he is high. What is the goal here? Facilitating Smokey's R with D, right?
I remember Ellie saying as long as the kids are not in danger, then you cannot tell your spouse what he/she can do or necessarily have to like their parenting style.
Would you take that chance with your most precious treasure? And, how can I face her and say that I may have allowed her to be in a dangerous situation just because it was what HE wanted. How is that ok?
This may be a moot point. I gently told D11 that her dad really wants to take her to lunch. She said I will tell him that I don't want to go. I told her she needs to be polite however she chooses to handle it.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
