Ohh nooooo nooooo, Wonka, I do NOT actually think it is my fault. I was saying that I am sure H is telling himself that it's my fault, because everything else is. I mean, it sure as hell can't be his fault.
Whoops-A! My bad. Thanks for clearing this up, M.
Go and have fun with your kiddos this weekend! Put H out of your mind this whole weekend.