Heather,
I'm telling you to stop texting him. You are fueling his fire and the more you do, the angrier he is getting and the more determined he will be to show you that you will not stop him from seeing his daughter as well as taking her out to lunch.

Breathe! The more your panic, the more your daughter is going to sense it. Tomorrow isn't here yet and anything can happen between now and then.

The best thing to do is sit down and talk to your daughter tonight.

No more texting...you are adding more and more fuel to his fire.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.