M,

My dear friend...

I do kind of wonder how my H fits this weaselly behavior into his narrative of being the good guy, but now that I am typing that's pretty obvious. This too, is my fault.

Why do you continue to devalue yourself in this process? It is NOT your fault that your H is a broken man. You did not make him this way at all.

Can you try to stop with that awful stinkin' thinkin' and shower yourself with TLC?

3boyz, I knew you would love the fact that my H actually cited a Federal Rule of Evidence. In all caps. Did he forget that I am also a L, and that I am not intimidated by legal stuff?

From where I'm sitting, I found it very interesting that H is throwing out every conceivable thing at you and then ends it with a battering ram hoping to scare the bejesus outta you with the "federal" stuff. LOL! That is the final, desperate act of a delusional man. And he knows it.

Why else wouldn't he look into your eyes the other day? He knows he's beat.