Yes, I do think it will help me to do this. I think it will piss him off - after all, remember how he said that any response like "talk to my L" would mean he would assume (rightly, in his mind) that I want a war? But I can't worry about that. In all likelihood, he will be pissed off, but will get over it, instead of continuing to pick at me and be pissed off at me. Or at least, that's my hope.
You have done nothing to indicate that you want this to be war. But your H's email on the other hand is a different story. The fact that he quoted the federal rules of evidence killed me.