Obviously if we did end the separation and start peicing, there is still SO much work to be done.
I wouldn't get anxious about that, do you keep up with Jon's sitch? That'll give you a good idea of what happens when the WAS comes back too soon without having done their work.
A.S., obviously I don't want her to end the separation if she doesn't want to or is really not ready. But I don't think I could turn her down if she indicates that's what she wants.
As her husband, if she tells me she's ready, I have to assume she's ready. But that doesn't mean we can fall back into the same dynamic that put us there in the first place.
Basically, it's the old saying that if you make it through this still married, your marriage will only be stronger as a result.
Me: 33 W: 27 S: 5 D: 2 Bomb: 1/2/14 First Separation: 1/25/14 MC: 2/7/14 (one time only) Moved Back in: 3/31/14 W says she wants a divorce and moves out: 7/26/14 Appt to sign dissolution: 12/30/14
