Oops, I wasn't very clear. With respect to D's meds. I wasn't going to not send the meds (jeez, I am mortified it sounded like that!), I was going to text my H and tell him not to worry about finding them, that I have bought enough and will send them over.

It's just that I feel attacked and then I don't feel like reaching out and being nice.

So I was asking, should I just suck it up and be nice? My instincts tell me to just get the hell away from him.

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14