I was relaxed (well, had a few drinks) and having fun. I could not careless that I didn’t look my best. During our M I was always trying to look my best for him, and at the end he didn’t like my anyway. So, I figured that there is no point to impress him, so I was just being myself.
I can relate to this completely. I spent decades trying so hard to look like a hottie for Smokey and it didn't make dam bit of difference in the long run. Now, I kinda don't care anymore. I look nice, but I'm not going outta my way. He's not worth the effort.
Sounds like you handled the "Surprise!" well. And, he sounds like he handled it in a very predictable, MLC-way.
Lots of love,
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
