Yes, he's using the court card quite a bit. Maybe you need to call his bluff on it. He knows he doesn't have any more rabbits to pull out of the hat. BTW, I think the court would listen to your 11 yr old daughter about her thoughts on her situation w/her father because she's old enough to know what is going on and have her own independent thoughts about things.
I just wanted to give you an additional option, even though I know you probably didn't like it...but at least you can dangle that carrot to see if he'll take a bite out of it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
