I'm wondering if I should continue to give her space by going into our bedroom most nights and reading or should I stay in the living room and be available if she wants to talk.
Neither. Stay in the living room because it's what YOU want. Or in the garage, or outside working on something, or out jogging, or at the gym. You've got to quit worrying about your W and what every little thing you say or do means to her. Right now she is DONE. She is CHECKED OUT. Nothing you do really matters to her for now. The sooner you accept that and GAL the better off you'll be.
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Where she is at right now is she gets uptight if I help her or if I don't.
Yup. It can be frustrating. She wants to hate you, so every little thing will be your fault and she will not see good in anything you do for quite a while.
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The bill shows a number of calls to the same out of state number. She is going to that state on Spring Break with her mother.
Do I ask her about the calls or just let it go?
If you ask then she will know 100% that you've been snooping. How do you think she'll react to that, especially in light of your above comments that you can do no right?
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If she wants out I just wish she would go and if she wants to work on the m I believe the calls need to stop. Do I need to set boundaries or will this just push her further away?
It'll push her away. You've got to detach and leave her alone. Give her time and space. Focus on what you're doing to GAL, tell us something about that.
