Thanks AnotherStander. On the refinancing. I am looking at as a business move and it would hurt me financially if I keep it. On the shirt. I guess I can try to look at it in a silly way. I want to go off on her but I won't and haven't in two and a half years going thru this. I have been discussing this as adults and telling her I know it has to be done but not what I want. Some people have told me I have been too nice about this.
She agreed to go to co parenting therapy. The counselor I picked has been divorced but not by her choice and is familiar w DB. She asked me what I wanted out if this and told her one for our s and to also indirectly some how maybe she will wake up.


M 43
W 35
S 6
BD 7-11
Served 5-2-13
Sep agree signed 5-12-14
Wife moves out pending refinance 5-14-14
Divorce hearing set May 2
Divorced May 2