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Email from H - and wanting advice on how to respond in a 180 way.
First he texted regarding how our daughter turned stuff into a treasure chest. He iniates 90% of the texts.
I told him I noticed when I went up to fold clothes
(Note husband NEVER Apologizes for anything)
"He texted back and said sorry he did not have the clothes folded. Was a mad dash this morning."
One of our issues in the past was he felt rightly so I did not do housekeeping as well as I should or hardly at all. My mom came in once a week and did stuff. I would leave to take the kids places and the house was always a wreck. I did not know until BD that housekeeping was such a huge issue to him. The deal that we are sharing the house right now is we both leave it immaculate with all kids clothes done.
Should I text back and say "No worries" Right now your paying all of our bills and that should be part of my job. I have went back to work two days a week but its in RE (all commission takes awhile to get your first sale again) My horse business is closed due to the pending divorce.
Just not sure what to say since housekeeping was one of the major issues in our marital breakdown. See above on how hard I've been working on it.
I know this text is a little thing but huge for H to apologize at all.
Advice please