Working on Divorce Busting every Day!

[Mic]

Hi Labug
I really liked James Dobson's books. I would read the Parenting magazines and had been reading books by Kevin Leman. I remember reading( I can't think of her name) How to be sexy and a mom. She was funny but right on target. Yes most of my attention went to my children and working. The rest got left over for my husband. I had my priorities all scewed up:)
I was a horrible housekeeper. I started doing the flylady stuff about 5 months ago. The last 3 days when I've had the kids. Everything has been done - beds, made, house clean, breakfast done about 20 minutes before we have to take my oldest to school. The kids can just play and relax. It was funny the other day I was sitting around and thought at this moment there is nothing that needs doing in the house. Even when I come back on my off days from the house I immediately start picking up. LOL. That was so totally not me.
On the downside I am over the anger stage and I just can't seem to stop crying. I know this is another cycle of this to go through. I guess I feel like I'm in the middle of the ocean and I have to keep swimming to reach the island. I'm not sure what is on the island - cannibals or a nice cabana and lots of fruity drinks:) Either way I have to keep swimming.