Wow, I REALLY feel like blasting my H. After sleeping on it, I woke up this morning feeling disgusted that my H thinks he can treat me the way he has and we will still be friends. Seriously? It just boggles the mind.

I suppose it's useless to even say anything. After all, he has shown so far that he isn't capable (or willing?) to consider anyone else's feelings other than his own, so why would me saying anything make any difference?

It is so frustrating dealing with him.

I remember a little while back, 3boyz said that she had thought about it and realized that her H doesn't bring any added value into her life. That's how I feel about my H right now. In fact, not only does he not add anything, but he subtracts. If we didn't have kids together, he is the kind of person I would remove from my life entirely, because all he does is suck my energy.


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14