I sent H a pic of the kids last night. H responded immediately with an upbeat text. Things have been back to positive since.
While I cant control H, maybe my happy mood and resistance to drama will help with our interactions. My goal at the moment is to have as many positive interactions as possible, with very few moments of drama, to help counteract the last two years and help my H rewrite his view of our history again. Who knows if it will happen, but at least I will be happy in the meantime
Originally Posted By: Pudmuddle
It feels good to not always be waiting around for someone else to feel happy or react to something. Such a release.
Pud - This is so true. For so long, I was waiting for someone (mainly my H) to swoop in and make me happy and fix all the problems in my life. I really only get one go at life, so I better start stepping up and deciding what it looks like.
