Thanks Job. You are right. I can look back and see some subtle signs. For him, being employed (having an income) probably helped with the BD. He does blame me for everything. Apparently all of these things were "wrong" but he just failed to mention them to me. I never went out with him on Valentine's Day (we went once in 12 years but I don't recall him asking or locating a babysitter to plan this adventure). He just wanted to hold my hand. He went off his medication during vacation a couple of years ago to see if I really loved him. I never loved him as much as he loved me. I wasn't committed said the man who moved out...


UGH....I'm in a bit of a funk right now and I need to work on this. Thanks for the insight. I do appreciate and now I must apply. And I do agree, I wouldn't trust or rely on him for ANYTHING at this point....except maybe giving me a headache.:)


3 kids
BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
"Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer