That is exactly how my convo about money went with my W, as you know from my thread.
When you are talking in truths and realities I guess the WAW just looks for an opening to pounce. It is their way of defending their position to themselves IMHO.
That is what happened and I just validated. I think it worked but she still was unhappy. Can't control that.
In the afternoon she did text me to say the door was left unlocked. Not knowing if it was me who left it that way I responded I will watch that.
So I guess she may have become less angry as the day went on. I fully did not expect to hear anything from her till she returns home from her weekend away.
Thanks again for the 2x4 yesterday, it helped me get off the rollercoaster.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
