I've been reading more and more about the pursuit/distance dance. Makes perfect sense. I've been really bored by my H's constant yoyo behaviour and mood swings. So bored that I've not been engaging in it. Now I'm not engaging he's pursuing. I never thought my behaviour was pursuing.....but I guess he did.

I really thought I was concentrating on me, but every time I take a step back I realise I wasn't. But I'm getting there slowly..... Work in progress!!


M32 H37
DD1 6 DD2 5
M6 T10
EA 31.08.13
Separated and H moved out 19.09.13
ILYBINILWY 23.09.13
OW 11.13