Remember we said this is a long walk.....Changes take time and HARD work my friend. Realizing that you weren't listening and hearing is a victory in itself. For me, I knew I had a communication issue from my employees long before the wife said something (8 years ago) and I work on it to this day. Even right down to how I communicate with the kids. See DB helps with many parts of your life.
Dude....Katy Perry in Concert....You need to beg to go watch that LOL.
As for the car....With kids, a dependable car is a necessity. At the same time, you just started a new job. So maybe wait a month and see how the new job is still going. You have mentioned things are tight....So see how things change financially over the next few weeks. See where I am going?
I will let you chew on this....One thing I learned from DB is that I was a slave to money. My life revolved a lot around making money and paying bills. Now I have changed my mentality about money....I respect it, but I do not live in fear of spending it. I budget wisely, but do not fear doing the things I want.
