Thanks everyone. Oh I'm struggling with something. I have a difficult time trusting and I trusted h with everything. As soon as I discovered he was giving play by play of our marriage to the girl he started working with mid October, it just reinforced to me that you can't really trust or know someone. I don't want to be that way, but when h's behavior changed so drastically, he had the audacity to say I didn't trust him. Ugh. Hello?
I'm going to have to work with my therapist on this. How could someone change so suddenly? As my d9 said, it's like someone flipped a switch in h-as an h and a dad.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer