By the way, it was my H who, a few months ago, told me that he really just didn't like labels. He didn't want to have a label on our relationship at all. Married, divorced, dating . . . why do we need to be put into a box like that? (Oh, and that, going forward, he wanted to be good friends with me, at the very least.)

In retrospect, I think perhaps he just said that so he could have no strings sex with me.

Back to the text tonight. Should I tell him I don't want to put any labels on how I feel about him? A-hole, dickwad, penis breath . . . (bonus points if you can name the movie), why do I have to limit it to just one??

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14