Do you know whether she is involved with the OM (or another OM)? I know she said she would stop, but do you know if that has actually happened?
What were the issues in your M? What was she carrying around for a long time?
As for this:
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The short time I've been dealing with this seems like an eternity to me and I don't know that I'll be able to hold on for that long.
What choice do you have, really? Make no mistake, DBing is about you being the best you can be, for YOU; it is not about sitting around waiting for your W to change her mind.
Most of the LBSs who have been here a long time are still standing for their Ms, but they have moved forward and created a good life for themselves.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
