H, thanks for getting back to me on this. Yes, I do have the proposal you sent a while back. Please give me your L's email address and a phone number so my L can get in touch with him/her regarding your proposal. Thanks. M
Modified:
H, thanks for getting back to me on this. Yes, we do have the proposal you sent a while back. I'll have my L get in touch with yours on this. Thanks. M
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Then instruct your L not to contact you until you get back after your vacation. You do not need the distraction at all.
Mel, you're free to do as you see fit and I'm certainly not heavily invested or "married" to my responses above. In fact, I thought said "Might"...
but the issue with what is here^^ is that MAYBE your h will interpret it to mean that your L and his L are actually going to finalize his previous, oh so generous offer...like's its pro forma for you two now. What happens when he gets the unexpected surprise from your L? I don't think he likes your surprises...
I wonder if at least a seed ought to be planted, that MAYBE that's^^ not what will happen. Maybe when another lawyer sees what your h is proposing and doing, the "eye roll" emoticon will have been invented.
But stay calm and be short/sweet. IF he goes ballistic you leave. NO engaging, and no arguing. That's what the L's are for...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
