I might just say I'll send it to my L. I've already let my L know that I want to let H do the work, and that starts with him getting his financial info submitted. My L has already told me he can't advise me on any proposed settlement until he has all the financial info (mine and H's) and until H's partnership interest has been valued. I will send it to him, though, so he knows what my H is thinking.

I'm also tempted to ask him if he is as committed to this proposal as he was the last time he proposed to me.

Oops. Betsey said we have to keep those to ourselves.

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14