If he insists on paying the mortgage fine but he needs to sign a quit claim deed for the mortgage so he has no rights to the house. I feel for you. I was married 19 years when the divorce came through. This was at least his second affair. Alimony will be ending this September and my 2nd of 4 kids will be coming off of child support.
I will need to get a second job of sorts soon. Not looking forward to it but I have to do what I have to.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory