Ken.. I really appreciate what you say to me. And I do re-read what you suggest before I respond. You are viewing my post as "re-wording", I thought I was responding to Job???.

I am not asking anyone to respond immediately. I know people will post when then can, or if they want to... I am not putting out a call for help, I was just posting.

You think I am re-wording? OK... thats what you think. I see it as me valuing myself to not accepting a less than best relationship for myself... and I am putting it in print. Usually when you state your requirement, you start to believe it. I am doing everything I can to stand behind my words.

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Journalling:
I am "thinking" of keeping myself distant, business only, giving/taking space, not accepting time/coffee, etc. After the weekend, I will ask h about progress towards the division of the business.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)