Oh Pud, I've missed you!!!

Magic: Smokey hates therapy, therapists, thinking deeply, pushing through uncomfortable feelings and feeling uncomfortable period.

So guys, I have a dating kinda question. I'm learning here and I never dated in high school/college, except two very short relationships before I married.

Ok, so...

I had a really nice time with the Forester last night. And, he seemed to have a really nice time too. So, I haven't heard anything from him. I guess I thought I would hear, "Hey, I had a nice time. That was fun..." yadda, yadda...

This is what he did the last date too. We have, what I think is this great time, and then he never "follows up" after. Like when I made him dinner that first time. He never followed up and, then, I got antsy and contacted him.

So, I haven't contacted him. I'm just wanting to use this as a chance to sort out how you handle this stuff. Is this normal? Or is it rude? I kinda think, especially after the dinner, it's kinda rude. Seems like a friend would at least send a text and say, "Thanks for the fun."

Am I wrong?

But, I haven't texted or anything.


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