I also want to hear his reply.

I probably would have said something about how "since the original proposal numbers were far off what your recently hired L believes to be fair, (esp since the partnership interest was not factored in...) but sure, you'll send it on over to your L for their any additional feedback."

and then get back to GAL, etc.

No way would I meet him alone at this point, with that topic in mind.

As for the apologies, I have to confess something.

Whenever I apologize to my h for a comment or action I did or forgot to do,

he almost always then launches into a litany of OTHER times I said/did something else he does not like...and he can go on for awhile. Or he repeats why and how I was wrong or suggests it means a character flaw in me, never just says "thanks" and drops it. Like the apology was me opening a door for him to list all my flaws.

Lately I've mentioned this to him as an "old h" trait, which I find undesirable and which makes me NOT want to apologize to him, ever.

Really He does not know how to accept an apology gracefully.

Hmm, I will work on modeling that for him I guess. cool

I mention this^^ on the off chance anyone seeing it, also sees themselves b/c as important as it is for someone in the wrong to apologize,

there's a lot to be said for accepting that apology and then, moving ON...


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change