Agree 100% with that A.S. In my case my W does have a beef and it's something that certainly has to be corrected (I have a temper but have never hurt her). BUT, that one thing snowballed into so many little things with her for a while to where all she could do was focus on negative things.
And I've been trying to reverse that cycle for a few weeks now. With SOME results. Still a long way to go.
Me: 33 W: 27 S: 5 D: 2 Bomb: 1/2/14 First Separation: 1/25/14 MC: 2/7/14 (one time only) Moved Back in: 3/31/14 W says she wants a divorce and moves out: 7/26/14 Appt to sign dissolution: 12/30/14