One more thought did she tell me she was going away to see my reaction? Other than her telling me twice that she was going for a few days I made no mention of it or had a reaction good or bad.

One other question should I have said something this morning when she asked me if I had anything else to tell her before she left? You know have fun be careful etc.. I just said no and asked if she had anything to tell me.

Not trying to guess or mind read, Did she tell me she was going away so I would know it is with the OM and that relieves her of actually saying the words that come along with a confession. Thinking I am not stupid and I have to know something is going on because of how she is acting?

Sorry, just confused

Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014