It is just me but if an A is happening either EA/PA or both. I would have thought by now if there was any hope of a future with the OM my W would have told me by now.
She's not going to tell you anything, maybe not ever. And she's not thinking of the future. She is very much living the here and now, with reckless disregard of the future. In her mind, the future is all rosy, and detail free.
Nit, you've been seriously attached for the last few days. STOP IT. Consider this M over, and start building yourself up for the chance at a new one. Everyone keeps saying this here, and it may sound bogus, but it is your best shot. I mean, after you eliminate all the stuff that doesn't work, this is what's left. [and yes, I sound tough right now, knowing full well that I'll have the same despair periodically too]
