There are mandatory financial disclosures on both sides, not due for another month. I see no point in hurrying him along with that. (And no, I will have no part in getting any info from him.)

Our VA trip is next weekend (H is going out of town this weekend), but I can still throw it in there.

So I should not give him any indication that his proposal sucked? I guess there is no point. I was starting to care that it would be frustrating for him that I said sure, send me something, and then I shut him down by sending it to my lawyer. But then i remembered that he is offering up the exact same proposal that he sent before I had a lawyer, and before he acknowledged (after speaking with his lawyer) that he had some understanding of the value of his partnership interest and how maintenance works.

Is he for real?

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14