I agree KML. I was really critical in my personal stuff and I even thought that I wouldn't date myself because of being so critical. LOL!

I agree...coffee date and whatever you do, do not tell them where you live. Meet them at a coffee house or somewhere else. Don't share too much of your personal life w/them. Just as you are using a fake name, age, etc., some of them are doing that too. There are some really nice ones out there and I did meet up with 2 that were very nice...but our work schedules clashed quite a bit...but we do stay in touch as friends, nothing more.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.