my story, my problems that I started

[KarenR]

I am sorry for what you are going through. If you haven't read Divorce Remedy, that would be a good start and addition to the other 'divorce' books lying around. I also suggest you read the Sex Starved Marriage. But for immediate direction on how to get your marriage back on track, there is nothing like talking to one of the DB coaches. They are experts in helping you get clarity on what you need to do, so that she does trust that the changes are permanent. Take good care.