Magic, I left you a posting on your previous thread about talking about your situation to everyone...please read it if you haven't already. Too many people giving their point of view will cause mass confusion.
Do what you think is best when it comes to your SO. You have received more attention and advice from posters than we have given to others. If you re-read the postings and follow the advice, you will be more settled and as I pointed out to you yesterday...you know what you are doing and how to handle your situation. Re-read the postings...the answers to all of your questions are in the postings.
I am not going to repeat the advice that I have given you since summer. It will be the same as back then.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
