Hi Job... I will limit who I discuss my situation with... good call!

It was exactly 27 days ago, that the above goal was created. It was part of my "homework" from the womens group. One thing I am proud of...is the fact that each day, I find "something" that reflects value to myself.

This morning I have been reviewing the comments on rH's thread. One valid point that you made was to allow the man/child time to grow up... for rH to not accept him back in this state. Do you see the similar case in my sitch? I think I do.

this is your post:

"rH,
Drop the crumbs of friendship w/no expectations. Take things nice and slow and don't get overly anxious and begin pushing a bit. Allow him to do the work that he needs to do in order to grow up and be a mature man. You don't want him back the way he is right now...you want the real man, not the man/child.

Take care of yourself."

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)